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February 12, 2023

STONINGTON FREE LIBRARY ANNOUNCES THE RETIREMENT OF YOUTH SERVICES DIRECTOR MARIS FREY.

A longtime presence at the Stonington Free Library (SFL), Youth Services Director Maris Frey has announced her plans to retire. Maris has worked at SFL since 2006 and has touched the lives of countless children, teens and families. She will be forever remembered as Mrs. Frey. Her commitment to bringing creative, innovative and fun library services to the youth of Stonington is exemplary.

Maris’ Summer Reading Program (SRP) is beloved and has consistently registered between 300-600+ children and seen 70-80% participation rates. Besides the SRP, she created many other successful reading programs including 50 to Grow On and several Family and Teen Reading Challenges.

During the pandemic, Maris successfully pivoted children’s programs to online platforms. Thousands of children enjoyed her weekly story times on the Library’s YouTube channel and were still able to participate in a digital version of the Summer Reading Program. She transitioned the Library’s reading programs over to the app Beanstack, which is now being used for reading programs for all ages.

Maris led the Children’s Room through its renovations in 2020. The area received new shelving, furniture, technology, paint, an accessible bathroom and elevator access. It is now a brighter, more open, accessible and flexible space for children and families.

Maris is also responsible for the introduction of many new technologies to the Children’s Room over the years. This includes Early Literacy Stations, smart devices, Kindle Fires, Playaway Views, Wii U Gaming and more.

Maris has brought a variety of friends and fun activities to the Library over the years including ducklings, the Little Blue Truck, Elephant & Piggie, Pete the Cat, Fancy Nancy tea parties, children’s operas, gingerbread houses, hula hooping, candy sushi, painting parties, magic shows, and much more! She has also led many outreach initiatives to bring the Library out into the community such as free story times and rotating collections of books for local preschools, after school read-aloud programs, visits to the mobile food pantry and bringing summer reading performers to both Stonington Human Services and the COMO.

Kevin Bowdler, President of the SFL Board of Trustees shared his thoughts on Maris’ retirement, “She took the children’s program to the next level. She always focused on community, and how the library could bring parents and children together. She also worked with the business community to help support the children’s program. Maris adapted spectacularly throughout COVID by creating bedtime book readings on YouTube and we were astounded by how many views they received. We, the Board, and the community are going to miss Maris.”

“Maris is such a treasure. My children began their library journey as little ones being read to by Maris during story time, elementary and middle school students participating in and then working for the Summer Reading Program, and now high school and college students dropping in to say hello during a trip to the Library for a book. Thank you Maris for sharing your love and caring with the community!” from Sage Williams, Stonington parent and member of the SFL Board of Trustees.

Maris shared her parting thoughts saying, “I am excited to embark on a new adventure, but also sad to say goodbye to so many children, families, friends, and coworkers who have touched my heart in so many ways. I have been privileged to have a front row seat to an entire generation of my “little friends” who are now in college and older. I loved every letter that was requested for community service hours, National Honor Society, high school admission, and college scholarships. Even though they missed having calculators, the Teen Volunteers improved their mental math skills in The Store. I was proud of my story time friends learning all the songs and practicing the hand motions at home. Stories are my life work – you have all given me stories to last forever. Thank you for sharing your children with me.”

After retiring on February 27, Maris and her husband plan to move out of state to be closer to their daughter, son-in-law and granddaughter.

Please stop by the Library between 10 am and 6 pm from Monday, February 13 through Thursday, February 16 to wish Maris all the best in her next chapter!

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Ready for some cocoa and competition? Join the fol
Ready for some cocoa and competition? Join the folks from the Citadel Game Cellar for a fun holiday celebration at the library. Players of all skill levels are welcome! Wear a festive sweater for a chance to win a prize. This program is great for ages 16 and up. 

Sign up at: https://conta.cc/4piVDQe


See what's new this week at the Stonington Free Li
See what's new this week at the Stonington Free Library at:

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There are two new bestsellers, two new audiobooks, three new children's books, and 13 other new books.

 The new bestsellers this week are "To Rescue the American Spirit: Teddy Roosevelt and the Birth of a Superpower" and "If Anyone Builds It, Everyone Dies: Why Superhuman AI Would Kill Us All."


What a night at the Stonington Borough Village Str
What a night at the Stonington Borough Village Stroll! Holiday storytime, Santa’s visit, and caroling on the green filled the evening with joy. Our library shimmered with lights and community. Thank you for an amazing year—2026 is looking even brighter! #stoningtonboroughct #stoningtonfreelibrary #lobstertraptreestoningtonct #mysticchamber #oceancommunitychamberofcommerce


Waiting for Santa! Storytime starts at 5pm!
Waiting for Santa! Storytime starts at 5pm!


Join the group on Thursday, Dec. 11 to discuss "Ma
Join the group on Thursday, Dec. 11 to discuss "Margo's Got Money Troubles" by Rufi Thorpe. The fun starts at 2pm!


December 4, 5:30 pm — Join the conversation after
December 4, 5:30 pm — Join the conversation after a screening of "My Mother’s Final Wish", as the group explores the topic of the right to die with dignity.


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Events Calendar

35 events found.
  • December 2025

Calendar of Events

M Monday
T Tuesday
W Wednesday
T Thursday
F Friday
S Saturday
S Sunday
4 events, 1
10:00 am - 7:00 pm
Adult Take & Make
December 1 @ 10:00 am - 7:00 pm
Adult Take & Make

Pick up a project kit with all the supplies you'll need to make a special craft. Available while supplies last.

10:00 am - 7:00 pm
Kid’s Grab & Go
December 1 @ 10:00 am - 7:00 pm
Kid’s Grab & Go
10:30 am - 11:30 am
Fall Drop-In Storytime
December 1 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am
Fall Drop-In Storytime

Join us every Monday at 10:30 for a fun morning of stories, songs, and crafts. Great for ages birth to preschool! No registration is required.

5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group
December 1 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

Booked in the Borough is a creative writing and supportive peer critique group for writers of all genres and experiences. Join librarian and writer, Karen Lindeborg, Monday Evenings in person

1 event, 2
1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays
December 2 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays

Stonington Free Library is pleased to offer our patrons One-on-One Tech Help appointments every Tuesday. These trainings are designed to help familiarize patrons with common computer and internet functions in

1 event, 3
1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Knitting Group
December 3 @ 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Knitting Group

On Wednesdays knitters of all skill levels are invited to meet in the main reading room from 1-3pm. To find out more information or to join the group via ZOOM

1 event, 4
5:00 pm - 6:30 pm
Conversations on Death & Dying
December 4 @ 5:00 pm - 6:30 pm
Conversations on Death & Dying

September 11th,  My End of Life Decisions October 9th,  Final Conversations December 4th,  TED Talk: My Mother's Final Wish and the Right to Die with Dignity Stay up to date

1 event, 5
5:00 pm
Village Stroll Story Time
December 5 @ 5:00 pm
Village Stroll Story Time

Join us right before the Village Stroll tree lighting for a special story time with Mrs. Taylor and Santa!

0 events, 6
0 events, 7
2 events, 8
10:30 am - 11:30 am
Fall Drop-In Storytime
December 8 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am
Fall Drop-In Storytime

Join us every Monday at 10:30 for a fun morning of stories, songs, and crafts. Great for ages birth to preschool! No registration is required.

5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group
December 8 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

Booked in the Borough is a creative writing and supportive peer critique group for writers of all genres and experiences. Join librarian and writer, Karen Lindeborg, Monday Evenings in person

1 event, 9
1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays
December 9 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays

Stonington Free Library is pleased to offer our patrons One-on-One Tech Help appointments every Tuesday. These trainings are designed to help familiarize patrons with common computer and internet functions in

3 events, 10
10:30 am - 6:00 pm
Gingerbread House Pick-Up 10:30-6:00
December 10 @ 10:30 am - 6:00 pm
Gingerbread House Pick-Up 10:30-6:00

Houses must be picked up same day and cannot be held. Please make the necessary arrangements. Registration opens November 17th. Reserve your house HERE. One per family.

1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Knitting Group
December 10 @ 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Knitting Group

On Wednesdays knitters of all skill levels are invited to meet in the main reading room from 1-3pm. To find out more information or to join the group via ZOOM

6:00 pm
Cook the Book Cookie Swap
December 10 @ 6:00 pm
Cook the Book Cookie Swap

This month the group will be meeting in the library (20 High Street, Stonington) for our Holiday Cookie Swap. Participants are asked to make at least 3-4 dozen of their

2 events, 11
2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
SFL Thursday Afternoon Book Group
December 11 @ 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
SFL Thursday Afternoon Book Group

The SFL Thursday Book Group will meet on Thursday, December 11 to discuss Margo's Got Money Troubles by Rufi Thorpe. The meeting will be held at the library starting at

5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
The Citadel at SFL Board Game Night
December 11 @ 5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
The Citadel at SFL Board Game Night

Join us in the library for a night of fun and games with the folks from the Citadel Game Cellar. The group learns new games every month. This program is

0 events, 12
0 events, 13
0 events, 14
1 event, 15
5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group
December 15 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

Booked in the Borough is a creative writing and supportive peer critique group for writers of all genres and experiences. Join librarian and writer, Karen Lindeborg, Monday Evenings in person

2 events, 16
1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays
December 16 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays

Stonington Free Library is pleased to offer our patrons One-on-One Tech Help appointments every Tuesday. These trainings are designed to help familiarize patrons with common computer and internet functions in

5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
The Checkmate Society – Entering 6th grade and older
December 16 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
The Checkmate Society – Entering 6th grade and older
1 event, 17
1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Knitting Group
December 17 @ 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Knitting Group

On Wednesdays knitters of all skill levels are invited to meet in the main reading room from 1-3pm. To find out more information or to join the group via ZOOM

1 event, 18
5:00 pm
Passenger Planes with David Hyland
December 18 @ 5:00 pm
Passenger Planes with David Hyland

David Hyland has spent the last twenty years working as a technical instructor in the airline industry. His presentation shows the development of airliners from open cockpit aircraft of the

1 event, 19
10:00 am - 11:00 am
Stonington Human Services Book Discussion
December 19 @ 10:00 am - 11:00 am
Stonington Human Services Book Discussion

Join the discussion at Stonington Human Services, 166 S. Broad Street, Pawcatuck. For more information email molly@stoningtonfreelibrary.org or call Stonington Human Services at 860-535-5015.  

0 events, 20
0 events, 21
1 event, 22
5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group
December 22 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

Booked in the Borough is a creative writing and supportive peer critique group for writers of all genres and experiences. Join librarian and writer, Karen Lindeborg, Monday Evenings in person

1 event, 23
1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays
December 23 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays

Stonington Free Library is pleased to offer our patrons One-on-One Tech Help appointments every Tuesday. These trainings are designed to help familiarize patrons with common computer and internet functions in

1 event, 24
2025-12-24
Library Closed for the Holiday
Library Closed for the Holiday
December 24 - December 25
Library Closed for the Holiday

The library will be closed on December 24th & 25th.  Our Digital Library is always open. We will reopen December 26th at 10AM.

1 event, 25
2025-12-24
Library Closed for the Holiday
0 events, 26
0 events, 27
0 events, 28
1 event, 29
5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group
December 29 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

Booked in the Borough is a creative writing and supportive peer critique group for writers of all genres and experiences. Join librarian and writer, Karen Lindeborg, Monday Evenings in person

1 event, 30
1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays
December 30 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Tech Help Tuesdays

Stonington Free Library is pleased to offer our patrons One-on-One Tech Help appointments every Tuesday. These trainings are designed to help familiarize patrons with common computer and internet functions in

1 event, 31
2025-12-31
Library Closed – Happy New Year!
Library Closed – Happy New Year!
December 31, 2025 - January 1, 2026
Library Closed – Happy New Year!

Happy New Year! The library will be closed on December 31st & January 1st.  Our Digital Library is always open. We will reopen January 2nd at 10AM.

4 events, 1
2025-12-31
Library Closed – Happy New Year!
2026-01-01
Adult Winter Library Challenge
Adult Winter Library Challenge
January 1, 2026 - March 29, 2026
Adult Winter Library Challenge

Read It Your Way! The new year brings a new library challenge that celebrates your reading freedom. No matter how you read—whether by turning pages, swiping a screen, or listening

2026-01-01
50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge
50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge
January 1, 2026 - March 29, 2026
50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge
2026-01-01
Family Reading Challenge
Family Reading Challenge
January 1, 2026 - March 29, 2026
Family Reading Challenge
3 events, 2
2026-01-01
Adult Winter Library Challenge
2026-01-01
50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge
2026-01-01
Family Reading Challenge
3 events, 3
2026-01-01
Adult Winter Library Challenge
2026-01-01
50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge
2026-01-01
Family Reading Challenge
3 events, 4
2026-01-01
Adult Winter Library Challenge
2026-01-01
50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge
2026-01-01
Family Reading Challenge
December 1
December 1 @ 10:00 am - 7:00 pm

Adult Take & Make

December 1 @ 10:00 am - 7:00 pm

Kid’s Grab & Go

December 1 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am

Fall Drop-In Storytime

December 1 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm

Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

December 2
December 2 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Tech Help Tuesdays

December 3
December 3 @ 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Knitting Group

December 4
December 4 @ 5:00 pm - 6:30 pm

Conversations on Death & Dying

December 5
December 5 @ 5:00 pm

Village Stroll Story Time

Notice
There are no events on this day.
December 8
December 8 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am

Fall Drop-In Storytime

December 8 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm

Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

December 9
December 9 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Tech Help Tuesdays

December 10
December 10 @ 10:30 am - 6:00 pm

Gingerbread House Pick-Up 10:30-6:00

December 10 @ 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Knitting Group

December 8
December 8 @ 10:30 am - 11:30 am

Fall Drop-In Storytime

December 8 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm

Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

December 9
December 9 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Tech Help Tuesdays

December 10
December 10 @ 10:30 am - 6:00 pm

Gingerbread House Pick-Up 10:30-6:00

December 10 @ 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Knitting Group

December 10 @ 6:00 pm

Cook the Book Cookie Swap

December 11
December 11 @ 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm

SFL Thursday Afternoon Book Group

December 11 @ 5:00 pm - 7:30 pm

The Citadel at SFL Board Game Night

Notice
There are no events on this day.
Notice
There are no events on this day.
Notice
There are no events on this day.
December 15
December 15 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm

Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

December 16
December 16 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Tech Help Tuesdays

December 16 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm

The Checkmate Society – Entering 6th grade and older

December 17
December 17 @ 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Knitting Group

December 18
December 18 @ 5:00 pm

Passenger Planes with David Hyland

December 19
December 19 @ 10:00 am - 11:00 am

Stonington Human Services Book Discussion

Notice
There are no events on this day.
Notice
There are no events on this day.
December 22
December 22 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm

Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

December 23
December 23 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Tech Help Tuesdays

December 24
All day

Library Closed for the Holiday

December 24
All day

Library Closed for the Holiday

Notice
There are no events on this day.
Notice
There are no events on this day.
Notice
There are no events on this day.
December 29
December 29 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm

Booked in the Borough – Writers Group

December 30
December 30 @ 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Tech Help Tuesdays

December 31
All day

Library Closed – Happy New Year!

December 31
All day

Library Closed – Happy New Year!

All day

Adult Winter Library Challenge

All day

50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge

All day

Family Reading Challenge

January 1
All day

Adult Winter Library Challenge

All day

50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge

All day

Family Reading Challenge

January 1
All day

Adult Winter Library Challenge

All day

50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge

All day

Family Reading Challenge

January 1
All day

Adult Winter Library Challenge

All day

50 To Grow On Winter Reading Challenge

All day

Family Reading Challenge

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